Cheating is a very painful experience many people don't want to have, especially when it is coming from the angle of a woman. In fact, it takes the grace of God for some husbands to forgive their cheating wives because it is one of the worse things that can ever happen to a man.
This is because most men see their wives as their belongings and they don't want to imagine the scenario of another man having access to their woman's body. Knowing that a wife is cheating weakens the spirit, soul and body of a man. It causes him to overthink, and in the process losses his mind and becomes violent.
So many lives have been lost and damages caused due to issues of infidelity; but the truth is that some men are the ones pushing their wives into committing adultery. So, instead of getting violent and probably end up doing something that might lead you to jail or cause more pains and even death to yourself and others, check out these six things you can do below.
1] Check Yourself.
Are you the same man your wife said "yes I do" to or you have changed overnight? Many men tends to change from the very lovely character they possessed in the early stages of their marriage into beasts overtime. You must understand that there are some traits your woman saw in you that made her to fall for you. If those traits are no longer there, then it's a major turned off for her regardless.
2] Check Your Level Of Provision.
How well do you provide for your family? A man who cannot provide for his household is worse than an infidel. 1 Timothy 5:8. Some men are very lazy when it comes to taking care of their families. Whether you believe it or not, one of the easiest ways for a woman to cheat is when she is experiencing lack. When a woman is lacking in so many things, there is every possibility that she will cheat on you.
3] How Faithful Are You To Your Wife
Most men think that cheating is their rights. They cheat at will and expect their housewives to remain happy with their lifestyles and not do the same! Some even go to the level of rubbing it on the faces of their wives. Men, you must understand that your wife is made up of flesh and blood too and she also have feelings. The reason some women cheat is to repay their cheating husbands. You must keep your bed undefiled
4] How Is Your Success Drive?
The reason why some women got married to their husbands apart from love is because they saw a very bright future in them and the level of success drive in their line of careers. But unfortunately, some men loss focus along the line and stay idle; which is a total turnoff for women. Whether you believe it or not, most women crave for successful men same way ants crave for sugar. There is every possibility that a woman can cheat on you with a more successful man in that line of career which you failed to achieve.
5] How Well Do You Give Her Attention.
Giving her money is not enough. Even though they won't admit it, women love attention more than anything else. They dress, wear make-ups, talk and even walk for attention. As a husband, you must let your wife know that you are seeing what she is doing and that she looks extremely beautiful in all. If you are not giving her attention and she starts getting it outside, there is every possibility that she will cheat on you.
6] Check Your Sex Life.
How is your sex life? Are you sure she's getting the needed satisfaction from you anytime the both of you are together? As a man, the most important duty you owe your woman is to make her feel alright in the room. Most women are engaging in extra-marital activities today because they are not getting the needed satisfaction from their husbands. Talk with your woman and know what she likes then do it for her to keep the marriage blissful.
Though, all what I have mentioned is not a criteria to cheat, but they are major reasons why some women are cheating on their husbands even till today. So, men, before you take that drastic decision against your cheating wife, make sure you check yourself and know what it is that you are lacking and work on yourself too.
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