Monday, 28 December 2020

Davido Is Pissed That Burna Boy Came To Mess With The Top 3 Algorithm - Peng Man

As you already know, the Nigerian Music Industry have grown into something very big that the whole world is very much interested in the Nigerian Afro beat brand. There are lots of good Musicians in Nigeria that are making things happen and putting the country in world map.

But of course, in hundreds, there must be one whom the people considered as their favorite musician. But in the case of Nigeria, it appears that the peoples favorite are three; Wizkid, Davido, and Burna Boy. For quite some time now, there have been rumors of disagreement between these three beautiful Musicians.

The rumor of the alleged quarrel between them has lasted for quite some time now without any of them coming out to debunk the claim or clear the air. So many people now believe that it could be true that they are really having some kind of beef and misunderstandings between themselves.

One of those people who actually believed this flying rumor about their quarrel is Peng Man. Peng man, who is a Twitter influencer, has been making some controversial comments and posts lately on Twitter and he has been contributing his own quarter of advise into nation building.

Peng Man, who has proven himself to be relevant in the Nigeria's Cyberspace, gave his own reason and opinion why there seems to be misunderstanding among the three finest musicians, especially between Davido and Burna Boy.

According to him, Wizkid has already secured the number one position in the industry and left the number two spot for Davido and Burna Boy to fight over. Davido is now pissed and angry that Burna Boy came to mess with the Top 3 algorithm, while Burna Boy on the other hand thinks that Davido doesn't deserve to be in the Top 3 spot at all.





Saturday, 26 December 2020

He Married A Respectful Illiterate, But What He Got Wasn't What He Expected.


This fictional story made me remembered the popular saying that "the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know"

It was 8:00am that very Tuesday! And as usual, i had already prepared for the day's job. My job was not something to joke with because it was the only source of my income then. Even though the resume time for me was 9:00am, i always made sure that i resumed 8:30am every single day to avoid stories that touches the heart.

During these period, i was staying at Ring Road in Benin City. The place i lived was a peaceful community filled with different classes of people. Therefore i was opportune to see and mingle with some rich class and share some positive ideas with them. Out of all the rich people i had the opportunity to meet with, was a man called Mr. Obasohan.

This very man was someone who hates anything that gives him stress and lack of peace. All the while he lived in that community, he made sure that he minded his business and stayed out of trouble. You will never see him outside if not for something very important. He'd always zoomed in and out in his Mercedes with his beautiful girlfriend, named Felicia.

So there was this day i had an opportunity to converse with Obasohan that i will never forget. Because what he told me that day left me wowed. On this very day, we were just having a very nice discussion where something led to another, then we dabbled into relationship and marriage issues. We were sipping some alcohol while having this discussion, then out of nowhere, Obasohan made mentioned of his girlfriend, Felicia.

Felicia was a girl who had spent almost two decades with Mr. Obasohan. She was so caring and very generous. The only issue, which i believe was not an issue anyways, was that she likes standing her ground. Some times the both of them did yell at each other over who is right or wrong whenever there was misunderstanding. And this made me felt awful because they looked so good as couples.

So while we were having this discussion, out of nowhere he just told me that though he loved Felicia so much, he cannot marry her because she was too exposed for him. He said that Felicia questions his every moves and sometimes she does things differently from what he'd expected of her. This behavior of hers always gets him pissed off but being that he hates problem with passion, he always kept mute.

On hearing this i became very sad. I tried to convince him that from the experiences i have had with women, even though he is older than me, i believed that Felicia would make a very good wife. But i didn't stress on this too much because his class was way higher than mine and i did not want to ruin my friendship with him. So he did what pleased him.

After he had sent Felicia away on the bases that she lacked respect for him, Obasohan went straight to the village to marry a very beautiful and respectful illiterate, called Ngozi. This girl was so loyal, even more loyal than what Obasohan expected of her. She cooked so good that he was forced to cry out that he has seen the woman of his dreams. I became happy for him too cause i love seeing people happy regardless.

Many years passed and they lived happily together. But not until that very Tuesday morning when i heard a very loud quarrel coming out from Mr. and Mrs. Obasohan's duplex as i was going to work. Though i don't joke with my job but i couldn't walk pass without showing concern as a good neighbor.

When i got to their door, i knocked and knocked but there was no response so i headed straight to work and deal with my business of that day. As i was coming back from work later that Tuesday evening, i saw Mr. Obasohan soliloquizing. I greeted him and asked him what the problem was in the morning?

What he told me left me very speechless. He never knew that the respectful illiterate has been cheating on him with another man whom she was dating back in the village before Obasohan married her. According to him, what caused the quarrel in the morning was that he noticed that his important documents were not the same as they were the previous night.

After much questioning and investigation, he got to realized that Ngozi had already planned with his village boyfriend to do away with him. Their mission was to poison him and take his property. They had already forged all his documents except one very last one which Ngozi tampered with during the night while Obasohan was asleep. If they had succeeded in forging that last document, the next thing would have been to kill Obasohan.

According to him, he was so disappointed and felt betrayed. He never believed that Ngozi could do such to him because he'd always showered her with lots of money, love and other good things life can offer. It was at this moment he shouted "The devil one knows is far far better than the angel one does not know." then tears started dropping from his eyes. I simply told him to take heart and that he should handle the situation with wisdom....then i walked away.

Mr. Obasohan has since placed his respectful illiterate wife, Ngozi and her boyfriend under arrest awaiting when investigation will be completed for proper judgement to be passed and possible punishment to be served. He has since went back to beg Felicia, his ex-girlfriend for forgiveness but it was already too late. Though Felicia forgave him but she was already engaged to another man and they were planning their wedding.

Tuesday, 22 December 2020

8 Things Most Girls Checkout In Guys At First Sight.


You may have heard the popular saying that "when a girl walk pass a guy," the guy tends to focus on her natural beauty and body structure. Men don't often consider what a girl wear because they are not wired to think that way. This obvious trait of men has made people to ask "what do women actually focus on in a guy when he walk pass them?"

I want to make this article very simple for us to have a great reading experience as we blast through. I will summarize and take it step by step for proper understanding. Without any further ado, below are eight things women pay pretty much attention to wherever a guy walk pass them.

1] Your Butt.

This may seem very odd but it is true. Some girls prefer guys with bigger butts. They like to show such guys off; especially in pool party or when he wears skinny jeans. Other girls love using it as pillow for head rest while they read books or watch movies.

2] The Way You Walk.

The manner in which you walk tells a lot about your personality. There are guys who walks as if they are afraid to step on ground. This is not what most women wants. They desire guys who walks like they own a bank. Shoulder high, face and heads up. These are some of the signs of a confident person.

3] Your Hair.

Yes, most women usually take a glimpse of a guy's haircut. This is because they prefer guys with clean shave. They also take a swipe at your beard to ascertain if they are well taken care of. If you are a guy who is trying to woo a girl but she is not responding, you may want to check your haircut!

4] Your Shoes.

As funny this may seem, it is also one of the things most girls checkout in a strolling random guy. They believe that a clean and good looking black pair of shoes reflects a guy's financial status.

5] Your Perfume.

How you smell matters a lot whenever a girl checks you out. If there is anything most girls detest most in any guy, that thing is fowl odor. It turns them off and chases them away. So if you want to be the pick of any girl at anytime, always bath yourself up and wear some good fragrance.

6] Your Height.

Naturally, some women prefer guys who are huge and broader than them. They always want to feel secured whenever they are around their man. Therefore, if you are tall and huge, you have more advantage of winning a woman's heart at first sight. I am not saying that short guys don't get beautiful women, no! What i am saying is that huge guys have more advantage.

7] Belt.

There is this thing about men waist belt that turn most girls off. There are guys who just don't know how to position the head of their belt very well. After dressing out to the street, they don't check their selves often to make sure that they are good to continue. As a guy, whenever you dress and tuck-in, always make sure that the head of your belt remains at the middle of your waist. What this means is that you are responsible enough to keep yourself in check.

8] Your Face.

In as much most girls want to be around handsome guys, some of them find it very difficult to settle with them. They will rather settle down with guys who are not too handsome. Women hate competing and fighting because of a man. So they believe that they will feel more at peace with moderate guys. I am not saying that handsome guys don't get good women, no. What i am saying is that some women find it difficult to trust them.

These are some of the things most girls check-out in guys at first sight. If you have any question, feel very free to ask.

Monday, 21 December 2020

8 Ways To Approach A Girl On The Road Without Getting Rejections.


Approaching a girl on the road can be very difficult for some guys because they tend to avoid the embarrassment they might get from any possible rejection. They will rather wait for a more conducive environment before making a move. This behavior has made so many guys lost the opportunity of having good women because they lacked the courage to approach and make their intentions known publicly.


It is because of situations like this, i have decided to write this article to tell us the eight necessary things to do when approaching a girl on the road for the very first time, and minimize rejections. I want you to also note that i am writing this article based on my own personal experience with women, and the conversation i have had with relationship experts. So let's go there!


Wooing a woman on the road is one of the easiest, if not the most easiest thing any man can do. All you need to do is know the necessary tactics and when to apply them. You must understand that women are more vulnerable than men. So they are always very at alert and security cautious whenever they are faced by a male stranger. But with these tactics which i am about to show you, you will be able get any single woman anywhere with ease.


1] Smile.

One of the things men can do for them to have smooth conversation when approaching a strange lady for the first time is smile. Always put on a bright and happy face anytime you want to approach a girl. This will not only make her feel relaxed, but it will also reassure her that you have not come to hurt or take advantage of her. Once you are able to make her feel comfortable with you, she will listen to whatever you have to say.


2] Use Please.

Some men have this mentality that they are more important than women simply because they are men. The society they grew in made them to believe that women should be answerable to them because they are stronger, which is not correct. Women are humans and they deserve to be respected too. This is why you should always say "please excuse me" whenever you are approaching a strange girl for the first time. This will make her feel respected and she will also see you as a gentleman.


3] Don't Look At Her Lustfully.

If you want your conversation to go smoothly with that girl you have stopped, you must try as much as possible not to look at her body sexually. As i have said before, women are very security cautious because they are very vulnerable to various attacks like sexual harassment. You might just freak her out and send the wrong signal if she caught you analyzing her body.


4] Don't Whistle Her.

A very good percentage of guys are guilty of this very one. They are fond of whistling a strange girl on the road hoping she will respond. Some girls hate that behavior with passion. If you do not know the name of the girl you are approaching, it is better you say "Hello Miss" whistling her on the road is very embarrassing and that could make her ignore and walk away from your position.


5] Don't Call Her Beautiful.

You see this word "Beautiful" girls hear it almost every minute of their entire day. Even to the extend that it sometimes irritates them. So when you approach a strange girl with that same line, you might appear boring to her. Instead of calling her beautiful, you could simply compliment what she is wearing. Something like her dress, earrings or even her pair of shoes. I bet you, she will appreciate it because women like guys who see beyond the fact that they are beautiful.


6] Don't Call Her Sexy.

Calling a woman you do not know from Adams sexy is highly disrespectful. That word alone has already identify you as someone who just want to have a piece of her. Not all women are actually down with that one-night-stand thing. Even if she is truly sexy, you do not have to remind her or tell her because she don't know you. So you have to be careful with your choice in words else you might just turn her off.


7] Don't Get Too Close.

As i have rightly said before, women are very security cautious whenever strange men come around them. Because of this they always mind who comes into their personal space. So if you are approaching a strange girl for the very first time, always make sure that you keep some distance from her. When you do this, you are indirectly assuring her that you have not come to harm her. She will feel secured and comfortable with you.


8] Don't Ask Her Multiple Question.

You must avoid asking her multiple questions as if you are a cop. Because to her you are just another random guy whose intention is not known yet. The much you can do is get to know her name and take her cell number. Don't go on that question and answer exercise, else, you might just irritate her away and you might never see her again.


One of the major reasons why some girls walk-out on men they do not know is because of safety, not that they are not actually interested. Which is why i said that your approach must matter a lot. If you strike her as a threat on your first move, she will run away from you. I hope this article helps? You can check some of my other articles on this blog and i promise you that your time will worth the while.



Sunday, 22 November 2020

6 Reasons Why Most Girls Lose Interest In Men.


You may have seen or experienced a scenario where a girl who showed lots of interest in a guy from the very beginning of a relationship suddenly starts to behave negatively and giving cold shoulders after some time? Personally, i have seen a situation where a girl paid one of my friends a visit for the very first time, and after that day, she never came back again, neither did she pick her calls.

At first i thought she didn't like my friend or probably he is not the type of guy she's looking for. After some months had passed, i then saw this same girl in a shopping mall somewhere in another city picking some items. Then i walked up to her and introduced myself. Being very curious about the way she behaved, i had to ask her what happened that made her not to show up again.

It was after she explained what really transpired between she and my friend, i then realized that there are some certain things most guys do that makes most girls to lose interest in them, even on a very first date or visit. After i left her, i went straight to my PC and did my own research on this very topic. Because i felt the need to tell other guys who might be unknowingly making the same mistakes. After lots of searches, i came up with this below.

6 Reasons Why Most Girls To Lose Interest In Men.

1, Pushing For Sex.

The last thing most girls wanna do is to sleep with a guy they just met or paid a visit for the very first time. This was exactly what my friend did which made that girl to lose interest in him. Most guys are guilty of this very one too. This is also the reason why some girls don't like paying guys visits, because they believe that visiting a guy may result to sex, which they are not ready for yet. This behavior could also put a guy on a bad spot in a girl's mind. She will think that all what the guy wants is to sleep with her and then dump her; which in-turn, makes her to lose interest.

2, Showing Interest In Everyone.

There are some guys who are every ladies friend. Every minutes you must see them catching fun around ladies or having a lengthening conversation with them. Most women detest this behavior with passion. You have to understand that some women are extremely jealous whenever they see their man around other girls. They cannot stand it when they see their man frolicking with numerous females, and this can make them lose interest very quickly.

3, Low Confidence.

Confidence is one of the traits most women look forward to in men. Women generally like guys who knows what they want and go for it. They believe that guys with confidence can easily attain success. On the other hand, they detest guys with low confidence. Guys who wallow in self pity and blame others for their shortcomings. They also believe that guys with low confidence could easily blame them whenever something goes wrong in their relationship.

4, Pushing Too Hard.

Most girls also lose interest when they discover that a guy is pushing too hard to get them. Too hard in the sense that some guys always try to portray what they are not just to win a girl's heart. In the absence of the girl, they will be doing something differently and being their selves. Immediately they notice that the girl is around, they will fake styles. Faking styles to win a girl's heart will only leave you unhappy.

5, Treating Her Badly.

Of course, nobody wants to be treated badly in this life. Even people that treats others badly wouldn't want to be treated as such. So why do you think a girl will want to gain or develop interest in you when you disrespect her emotions. It is said that one good turns deserves another. If you want your girl to gain interest in you and not look elsewhere, then treat her well like every other good human beings would.

6, Acting Like A Kid And Being Aggressive.

There are some guys who are grown but still acts very childishly. They do not know when to ask certain questions or take certain decisions or actions. They always allows their emotions to override their sense of judgement negatively. Most women detest guys like this. A guy who cannot control his anger is also a no no for most women out there, because such guy could hit his woman at a slightest provocation someday.

So if you noticed that your woman is losing interest in you, or her love for you is no longer going the way you wanted it to go, then you might want to look yourself up. Better still, sit your woman down and ask her what is it that you do that is turning her off. I am sure she will be very happy to tell you her concern. God bless you.

Author: Osxaxs Edema.

Friday, 20 November 2020

The Story Of A Man, Who Saw A Girl Through The University.

 FICTION: WHAT A VERY PAINFUL DEATH.


On this fateful day, a guy named Frank, went shopping in a mall. In the process of taking the stuffs he needed, he saw a very beautiful girl "Hi Pretty, my name is Frank" What's your own name? my name is Ade, she responded"

They exchanged pleasantries and started talking. After a fun-filled conversation, they agreed to meet on a date "Wow! Pretty, am glad you are here, you are welcome" he said. "thank you so much" Ade replied, and they sat down.

So, what do you do? Ade asked Mr. Frank. Well, i am a business man, i sell iron rods, he answered in a very broad voice. And you? he asked Ade. Jambite, she said. Mr Frank, being an illiterate doesn't know what Jambite means; what kind of business is that? he asked. "It's not a business" i just gained admission into the University.

Wow, congratulations! both of them became very happy with each other, and things started going very well. They fell in love and the both became 5&6.....Ade went to school the following month, and Frank could not bear her absence for too long due to love overflow.

They were like two love birds. They kept calling each other on phone every now and then not minding who is listening. They couldn't get enough of themselves. "Thank God! I have found the woman of my dreams" Frank said to himself.

Mr Frank started pumping money into Ade's education. "Honey! Our lecturer said we should pay for this and that" Frank footed the bills. "Boo Boo! Please send me money for handout and provisions" Boo Boo was there. In fact, on hearing that Ade called him boo boo, he became extra happy.

Fast forward to final year, Ade graduated from school with good grades. Mr Frank threw a huge party to welcome the love of his life back from school, and there was merry everywhere. I need to go home and spend some time with my parents, Ade said to Frank "Oh! that's okay my BeBe" Mr Frank responded in a very broad voice with massive joy.

After some hours, He dialed Ade's phone number to be sure that she arrived home safely, but her number did not connect. He tried several times but all to no avail. What's happening? He became worried and decided to go to Ade's place the next morning. On getting to her place, he was dumbfounded to hear that Ade's family had packed out of their apartment 3 months ago.

Ade was actually on her way to Abuja but lied that she was going home to meet her parents. She is already in love with a Senator's Son whom she met in the university she graduated from. They are about to get married.

On hearing this, Frank provoked and his eyes became red like fire. He never knew that he was actually doing a send-forth party for Ade. After numerous investigations, he was able to get the address of Ade's apartment in Abuja.

On the day of her wedding, Mr Frank showed up with a very short pistol, but before he could say Jack, the heavy security personnel present at the wedding venue shot at him and he died at the spot.

Sunday, 1 November 2020

Don't Be Too Quick To Defend Your Friend.











Ladies, sometimes when your man tells you that he doesn't want a particular female friend of yours coming around the house, don't think he hates your friend, or he does not want you keeping a particular set of friends.
It could be that your friend is trying to have her way with him, and he is fed up. Not all men will tell you that a friend of yours is trying to have him; because, he might not want to destroy your business relationship, or whatever relationship you are having with her.
Instead of fighting and quarreling with him, why not sit him down and ask him with all sincerity, if there is any problem as to why he asked you to stop bringing a particular female friend of yours to the house or around him?
So many women have lost their lives and their husbands to friendnemies because they trusted too much. Not all that smiles with you or eat with you, truly loves you. Some are out there just to grab what belongs to you.
Next time, when your man say something you don't like about your female friend, don't be too quick to defend her. Even if you have known her from childhood, always try to read between the lines, because, you might just be protecting something precious that belongs to you.
THIS ALSO APPLIES TO MEN! SHALOM.
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